Spock was my favourite Star Trek character because he was so logical and rational. As a young man I sought out the facts and tried to emulate that calm, logical and rational perspective that I saw in my Vulcan role model. For many years I really believed I was making all my decision based on purely cognitive calculations. I took this to the next level and majored in Philosophy as an undergraduate and even started a Masters in Philosophy. Despite my desire to be logical and rational I struggled with aspects of my life that couldn’t be so easily explained by logic and continually strived to develop my reason to a high enough level where I would be able to control my passions and desires. As the years progressed my studies shifted to include a bit of Psychology but I still tried to explain away everything from a purely logical or rational perspective.

In the past 10 years, I have shifted my thinking based on sound research to recognize that the head won’t go where the heart hasn’t been and now I recognize that we aren’t a logical and rational as we hope to be. I really wished I would have come across the following research-based ideas that confirm that we are motivated and perhaps even controlled by intangibles or the affective domain much more than tangibles and the cognitive domain:

Are we in control of our decisions? | Dan Ariely –

Ariely, D. (2016). Payoff: The hidden logic that shapes our motivations. Simon & Schuster/TED.

Science Of Persuasion | Robert Cialdini

Cialdini, R. B. (2008). Influence: Science and practice (5th ed.). Needham Heights, MA: Allyn & Bacon.

How to Use Pre-suasive Tactics on Others – and Yourself | Robert Cialdini

Cialdini, R. B. (2016). Pre-Suasion: A revolutionary way to influence and persuade. New York NY: Simon and Schuster.

While we are on the topic of motivations I don’t think I can leave off Daniel Pink’s seminal works:

RSA ANIMATE: Drive: The surprising truth about what motivates us

Pink, D. H. (2011). Drive: The surprising truth about what motivates us. New York, NY: Penguin.

The article Rethinking How Students Succeed in The Standford Social Innovation Review points a wave of noncognitive skill initiatives (affective domain) that holds promise for making teachers more effective and students more successful. The article also points to research shows that students who develop social and emotional learning (SEL) skills and academic mindsets (for example, a belief that one’s abilities can improve with effort) do better in school.

Whenever you mention the growth mindset it is imperative to point to Carol Dweck’s work Growth Mindset: New Psychology for Success

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Disruption and Education
Source: Ian Jukes

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Responsible parents are rightly concerned with how much screen time is OK for their kids. According to folks at CommonSense Media (2016) the answer to this question depends on the age of your children and the category or type of screen time which include:

  • Passive consumption: watching TV, reading, and listening to music
  • Interactive consumption: playing games and browsing the Internet
  • Communication: video-chatting and using social media​
  • Content creation: using devices to make digital art or music

Before we start exploring just home much our kids are spending in front of some sort of screen it would be helpful to look the example we as parents are setting. As you can see from the infographic below parents are spending over 9 hours with screen media with just under 8 hours devoted to personal use. How does that compare to their children?  Excluding time in school and homework the 2015 CommonSense Census found that our teens are spending just under 9 hours with media with just under 7 hours of screen time. There is no denying that we spent a great deal of our time in front of some sort of screen.
Parents Screen Time(Common Sense Media, 2016)

 

Tweens & Teen Screen Time(Common Sense Media, 2015)

Read the full Report: The Common Sense Census: Media Use by Tweens and Teens
Use the guidelines on the How much screen time is OK for my kid(s)? to help you make decisions based on the age and needs of your children.

References

Common Sense Media (December 2016) How much screen time is OK for my kid(s)? [Weblog] Retrieved from https://www.commonsensemedia.org/screen-time/how-much-screen-time-is-ok-for-my-kids

Common Sense Media (December 2015) The Common Sense Census. [Infographic] Retrieved from https://www.commonsensemedia.org/the-common-sense-census-media-use-by-tweens-and-teens-infographic

Common Sense Media (December 2016) Plugged-In parents. [Infographic] Retrieved from https://www.commonsensemedia.org/plugged-in-parents-of-tweens-and-teens-2016-infographic